Nigerian relationship coach, Solomon Buchi has dished out strong advice to men.
Taking to his Twitter page, the relationship coach talked about how men invest in women by sending them abroad to school. Such men believe that by doing so, their women will get great jobs and help out with bills when they eventually get married.
Solomon Buchi went on to advise such men to desist from doing so as women do not appreciate men who build them.
According to him, such women tend to change when the time comes to help out in the house after the man must have finished investing in them.
Solomon concluded by stating that if men plan to invest in a woman, they should do that out of charity and not because they intend to get married to them afterwards.
In his words;
“Men, stop sending women to school abroad believing they’ll get better jobs and then they’ll help with the bills. Stop investing your life into these women. Meet her halfway. Most of these women after doing all that, they’ll dump you, call the cops on you over an argument.
They’ll make a fuss out of the fact that they are now educated and earn and contribute to the home. 90% of women do this. The remaining 10% are obviously rare. Women do not appreciate men who build them. It’s worse when you’re in a foreign country where women have power.
She will finish you. Trust me, many women forget kindness too early. The day something goes wrong, she’d forget all the sacrifices you made. I’m not saying you shouldn’t invest in a women before marriage, but do it as charity. Charity, my brother.”
See his post below:
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